Being a grandparent is amazing. I never knew I could love so much. Having the four children I gave birth to was pretty amazing also. Each one was a bundle of unique personality that I just adored. I still do. But a grandchild……. a whole different ballgame.
You hold them for the first time and look deep into their eyes and wonder ….. who do they look like? There’s a bit of everyone wrapped up into this little human. They change almost daily in their looks and their personalities unfold just as fast. I was blessed to be in the birthing room for our third grandson’s birth. When he cried and cried laying there on the table waiting to be measured and cleaned up I went over to him and said, “It’s OK. I’m here”, exactly as I would tell him when he was in his mother’s womb. I did that two times after his birth and both times he stopped crying. He knew me.
Our fourth grand child is the first girl grand child. She is two years old now. I talked to her in the womb also thinking I would have the same rapport. No. She cried for me for the first six months of her life as I cared for her a few hours each day. I tried not to take it personally. Then one day she came over and smiled and loved me. It is an awesome feeling. Now, she sings with me and plays with me and snuggles and argues.
She tends to prefer songs with a good beat to bop up and down to. She know what she wants. Jason Mraz is a favorite of hers.
She spent the night the other day. When I entered her room here is what took place:
Me: “Good Morning. Lovely.”
L: “I have Cheerios? Chocolate?”
I girl after my heart…… cheerios that are chocolate. Of course I said yes. My kids never ate cereal like that – but nothing is too good for my grandchildren.
We now wait excitedly for another grand daughter who will arrive in October! Who is she? Will she look like me?
What will be her favorite treat from Mammy and Papa?
Love your family and friends – they are priceless. There is much to be learned about life through our families and friendships. There is much to be learned about ourselves. I love that. I love them.
9 thoughts on “Chocolate Cheerios and Jason Mraz”
We have been on the same journey….which makes it even lovelier !!
Yes it does, friend!
Very warm and touching post Cate, I only have two grandchildren,they are both girls and when I get to see them I spoil them until their mom says stop 🙂
haha – that’s awesome – I keep doing it whether they say stop or not. hahaha
Absolutely wonderful. There is always a great warmth in your Writing that does in fact, remind me of a slice of pie! That might sound corny but I mean it!
Thank you so much. That is exactly what I hope comes across. 😀
Love this post! We have 4 grown children as well. 3 of our grand-girls live in Shanghai, China and I’m just back from 2 weeks of getting reacquainted with them. I like how you talk about “wooing” your grandkids. I did a bit of that –no Cheerios, but plenty of UNO games and m&m’s the last couple weeks. And now we have a new grand-girl in San Francisco –just 7 hours by car!! Getting to know her as well. It’s a joy. thanks for the warm and wonderful post.
My kids love that Sesame Street clip with Jason Mraz as well.
it’s my Lucy’s theme song. She LOVES being outdoors.
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